To this moment people majority are of the opinion that eulogy and insult is two different things. Eulogy viewed as a word which can make someone to become happy or feels exalted, while snubbing will make someone who affronted it will become aggrieveding, angry, even until can happened action of criminality.
Eulogy in discourses psychology categorized as reward, while snubbing as punishment. Both a more regular addressed to others with a specific-purpose. The eulogy as sugar or candy that is the taste is sweet. Sugar or candy has some functions. Between it is if consumed as according to correct and good order, it will give a benefit which no thought. Besides will give sweet taste also can excite body is being weakening. For example, consumed when breaking fast or morning. But will which there will be if the sugar or candy is consumed too much, possibly the someone will suffer from sugar or diabetes. Particularly, if consuming of course has suffered from sugar or diabetes, possibility that death has presents in the front of eyes. On the contrary if someone unable to consume sugar, body will felt very weakening.
Eulogy words also likely that. If it is consumed as according to religion medication order ( Al-Qur'an and As-Sunnah), the eulogy words can function as motivation, that is thing pushing someone to implement a duty in more intensively and orients ( Chaplin, 2002). Someone like getting supplement spirit. But, if words given to the someone too much or very few, he will experience imbalance in life. A real someone a few consuming eulogy usually would lacking of appreciation. If someone lacking of appreciation from others or the family is usually he will look for someone ready to give appreciation to him. People like this also hardly easy to feel inferior or modest. On the contrary, if this eulogy excessively is given, the induction is also would not either or dangerous, particularly if man who is receiving it is having weak character. Eulogy words that is at first is expected able to increase someone performance exactly will cause someone to become depressed in insult dale, namely becomes conceited and arrogant. Even in book abwab al-faraj the composition Syech Sayyid Al-Maliki, Prophet Muhammad SAW tells that the eulogy can cause someone losing of the common sense.
Hereinafter how with insult. This insult can be in the form of utterance, position, and behavior. A snubbing in whatever form will make man who is feeling affronted difficult to forget it and tends to experiences restlessness. Someone who is experiencing insult also will become easy unconvincedness when doing a deed or haves cold feet wrong.
Insult actually can become a real whip means, if stood positively. Someone is acting is positive to causing humiliation will be raced to prove that self is not like what alleged to it. Or the snubbing can be made shield to do thing more praiseworthy without having to show off to others. If this thing is done consistently hence this snubbing will take care of it from bluffed and arrogant.
Thus, eulogy and snubbing actually two things that is in form differed, but if it is examined farther has equality. Both same there is in affective domain or feeling. Besides, both also can become thing useful, namely became a motivation if it is stood positively. But, if too someone relies on both, so can be concluded that the someone experiences acute self trust crisis. This thing, because the man still requiring a confession from others. While, someone who self confidence when doing a deed will not consider or doesn't require both.
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